L&#7877; v&#7853;t c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng g&#7891;m nh&#7919;ng g&igrave; l&agrave; th&#7855;c m&#7855;c chung c&#7911;a c&aacute;c b&#7853;c cha m&#7865;. Ng&agrave;y nay, c&oacute; kh&aacute; nhi&#7873;u b&#7853;c ph&#7909; huynh t&#7887; ra b&#259;n kho&#259;n kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t chu&#7849;n b&#7883; m&acirc;m c&uacute;ng nh&#432; th&#7871; n&agrave;o, g&#7891;m l&#7877; v&#7853;t g&igrave; hay c&aacute;ch b&agrave;y tr&iacute; ra sao.<br /> https://vnexpress.net/so-hoa/phong-trao-lam-web-ca-nhan-no-ro-1509642.html ph&#7847;n l&agrave; do cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng ng&agrave;y c&agrave;ng b&#7853;n r&#7897;n khi&#7871;n cha m&#7865; &iacute;t ch&uacute; t&acirc;m v&#7873; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; n&agrave;y, sau n&#7919;a l&agrave; do thi&#7871;u hi&#7875;u bi&#7871;t v&#7873; c&aacute;c phong t&#7909;c truy&#7873;n th&#7889;ng. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n c&#361;ng g&#7863;p t&igrave;nh tr&#7841;ng n&agrave;y, h&atilde;y tham kh&#7843;o b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t sau &#273;&#7875; hi&#7875;u r&otilde; h&#417;n nh&eacute;.<br />T&#7841;i sao ph&#7843;i c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng?<br />Theo quan ni&#7879;m d&acirc;n gian c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i Vi&#7879;t, c&uacute;ng th&ocirc;i n&ocirc;i l&agrave; ng&agrave;y b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u t&iacute;nh tu&#7893;i cho tr&#7867; c&ograve;n c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng l&agrave; ng&agrave;y ch&iacute;nh th&#7913;c c&ocirc;ng nh&#7853;n s&#7921; xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n c&#7911;a con tr&ecirc;n c&otilde;i &#273;&#7901;i n&agrave;y.<br /><br /><br />L&#7877; c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng v&#7915;a mang quan ni&#7879;m t&acirc;m linh v&#7915;a th&#7875; hi&#7879;n truy&#7873;n th&#7889;ng &#8220;u&#7889;ng n&#432;&#7899;c nh&#7899; ngu&#7891;n&#8221;, th&#7875; hi&#7879;n l&ograve;ng c&#7843;m t&#7841; c&#7911;a gia &#273;&igrave;nh &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i 12 b&agrave; M&#7909; tr&ecirc;n c&ugrave;ng &#272;&#7913;c &Ocirc;ng v&agrave; &ocirc;ng b&agrave; t&#7893; ti&ecirc;n.<br />&#272;&acirc;y c&#361;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t t&iacute;n ng&#432;&#7905;ng c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i d&acirc;n Vi&#7879;t m&#7895;i khi con ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#432;&#7907;c l&ecirc;n ch&#7913;c cha ch&#7913;c m&#7865;. Trong ng&agrave;y n&agrave;y, b&#7853;c cha m&#7865; c&ugrave;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n, b&#7841;n b&egrave;, h&agrave;ng x&oacute;m &#8230; s&#7869; g&#7917;i &#273;&#7871;n con tr&#7867; nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i c&#7847;u ch&uacute;c may m&#7855;n v&agrave; h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c.<br />H&#417;n n&#7919;a, l&#7877; c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c c&#7917; h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#7863;t t&ecirc;n cho con k&#7875; t&#7915; khi ch&agrave;o &#273;&#7901;i. Con tr&#7867; s&#7869; nh&#7853;n t&ecirc;n m&agrave; cha m&#7865; &#273;&#7863;t cho c&ugrave;ng s&#7921; ch&#7913;ng gi&aacute;m c&#7911;a &ocirc;ng b&agrave;, t&#7893; ti&ecirc;n v&agrave; th&#7847;n linh. Cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng sau n&agrave;y c&#7911;a tr&#7867; s&#7869; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&#7841;nh ph&uacute;c v&agrave; vi&ecirc;n m&atilde;n hay kh&ocirc;ng c&#361;ng m&#7897;t ph&#7847;n nh&#7901; s&#7921; linh thi&ecirc;ng c&#7911;a ng&agrave;y l&#7877; c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng.<br />L&#7877; v&#7853;t c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng g&#7891;m nh&#7919;ng g&igrave;?<br />Tuy ng&agrave;y c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng t&#7915; l&acirc;u &#273;&atilde; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t n&eacute;t v&#259;n h&oacute;a &#273;&#7865;p c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i Vi&#7879;t nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i ai c&#361;ng hi&#7875;u r&otilde; v&#7873; n&oacute;. &#272;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i hi&#7879;n &#273;&#7841;i, c&aacute;c b&#7853;c cha m&#7865; d&#432;&#7901;ng nh&#432; &iacute;t quan t&acirc;m &#273;&#7871;n &yacute; ni&#7879;m t&acirc;m linh, do &#273;&oacute; th&#432;&#7901;ng hay th&#7855;c m&#7855;c l&#7877; v&#7853;t c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng g&#7891;m nh&#7919;ng g&igrave;.<br />M&acirc;m c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng g&#7891;m nh&#7919;ng l&#7877; v&#7853;t sau:<br />X&ocirc;i ch&egrave;<br />X&ocirc;i ch&egrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c l&agrave;m t&#7915; nguy&ecirc;n li&#7879;u ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; h&#7841;t n&#7871;p, h&#7841;t g&#7841;o &#8211; ngu&#7891;n l&#432;&#417;ng th&#7921;c ch&iacute;nh c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i ph&#432;&#417;ng &#272;&ocirc;ng n&oacute;i chung l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i Vi&#7879;t n&oacute;i ri&ecirc;ng. X&ocirc;i ch&egrave; l&agrave; l&#7877; v&#7853;t ch&iacute;nh kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; thi&#7871;u &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7885;i m&acirc;m c&uacute;ng ch&#7913; kh&ocirc;ng ri&ecirc;ng g&igrave; m&acirc;m c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng.<br />N&#7871;u l&agrave; c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng b&eacute; trai th&igrave; c&uacute;ng x&ocirc;i 3 t&#7847;ng, ch&egrave; &#273;&#7853;u tr&#7855;ng. N&#7871;u l&agrave; b&eacute; g&aacute;i th&igrave; c&uacute;ng x&ocirc;i g&#7845;c, ch&egrave; tr&ocirc;i n&#432;&#7899;c. Ngo&agrave;i ra, t&ugrave;y theo v&ugrave;ng mi&#7873;n, gia &#273;&igrave;nh c&oacute; th&#7875; thay th&#7871; b&#7857;ng x&ocirc;i v&ograve; v&agrave; ch&egrave; hoa cau (th&#432;&#7901;ng &#7903; mi&#7873;n B&#7855;c) ho&#7863;c x&ocirc;i &#273;&#7853;u xanh v&agrave; ch&egrave; &#273;&#7853;u xanh (th&#432;&#7901;ng &#7903; mi&#7873;n Trung).<br />Khi chu&#7849;n b&#7883; x&ocirc;i ch&egrave;, cha m&#7865; n&ecirc;n ch&uacute; &yacute; l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n nguy&ecirc;n li&#7879;u t&#432;&#417;i, s&#7841;ch &#273;&#7875; gi&uacute;p m&oacute;n &#259;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&#417;m ngon, b&eacute;o ng&#7853;y c&ugrave;ng h&#432;&#417;ng v&#7883; &#273;&#7853;m &#273;&agrave;. X&ocirc;i ch&egrave; ngon s&#7869; gi&uacute;p t&#432;&#7907;ng tr&#432;ng cho nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u may m&#7855;n, &#273;&#7847;y &#273;&#7911; v&agrave; tr&#7885;n v&#7865;n.<br />Tr&#7847;u cau<br />Tr&#7847;u cau th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c chia l&agrave; 12 ph&#7847;n nh&#7887; + 1 ph&#7847;n l&#7899;n. C&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#7875; &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n ho&#7863;c thi&#7871;t k&#7871; h&igrave;nh chim ph&#7909;ng, chim c&ocirc;ng.<br />Khi ch&#7885;n mua ho&#7863;c h&aacute;i tr&#7847;u cau th&igrave; n&ecirc;n l&#432;u &yacute; ch&#7885;n l&aacute; xanh t&#432;&#417;i, kh&ocirc;ng b&#7883; d&#7853;p, kh&ocirc;ng b&#7883; h&eacute;o v&agrave;ng. N&ecirc;n r&#7917;a s&#7841;ch s&#7869; tr&#432;&#7899;c khi s&#7855;p l&ecirc;n b&agrave;n &#273;&#7875; c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng.<br />B&#7897; &#273;&#7891; gi&#7845;y c&uacute;ng, nhang &#273;&egrave;n, v&agrave;ng m&atilde;<br />Trong ph&#7847;n tr&#7843; l&#7901;i cho c&acirc;u h&#7887;i l&#7877; v&#7853;t c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng g&#7891;m nh&#7919;ng g&igrave;, ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i xin l&#432;u &yacute; gia &#273;&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c chu&#7849;n b&#7883; thi&#7871;u 12 &#273;&ocirc;i h&agrave;i xanh, 12 n&eacute;n v&agrave;ng, 12 b&#7897; v&aacute;y &aacute;o c&ugrave;ng nhang &#273;&egrave;n, ti&#7873;n &acirc;m ph&#7911; v&agrave; v&agrave;ng m&atilde;.<br />&#272;&#7891; m&#7863;n<br />&#272;&#7891; m&#7863;n c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng g&#7891;m th&#7883;t heo quay v&agrave; g&agrave;/v&#7883;t lu&#7897;c nguy&ecirc;n con. Chu&#7849;n b&#7883; xong th&igrave; chia th&#7883;t heo v&agrave; g&agrave; lu&#7897;c th&agrave;nh 12 d&#297;a nh&#7887; &#273;&#7875; tr&ecirc;n b&agrave;n c&uacute;ng 12 b&agrave; M&#7909; + 1 d&#297;a l&#7899;n &#273;&#7875; tr&ecirc;n b&agrave;n c&uacute;ng &#272;&#7913;c &Ocirc;ng.<br />Ngo&agrave;i ra, &#273;&#7891; m&#7863;n th&#432;&#7901;ng d&ugrave;ng k&egrave;m v&#7899;i ch&aacute;o.<br />&#272;&#7891; ng&#7885;t<br />&#272;&#7891; ng&#7885;t c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c chu&#7849;n b&#7883; &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n v&#7899;i c&aacute;c lo&#7841;i b&aacute;nh k&#7865;o tr&#7867; em, chia th&agrave;nh 12 d&#297;a nh&#7887; d&ugrave;ng &#273;&#7875; c&uacute;ng 12 b&agrave; M&#7909;.<br />Hoa qu&#7843;, r&#432;&#7907;u, tr&agrave;<br />Trong m&#7885;i m&acirc;m c&uacute;ng, l&#7877; v&#7853;t kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n thi&#7871;u &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; hoa qu&#7843; c&uacute;ng. Hoa th&igrave; ch&#7885;n hoa &#273;&#7891;ng ti&#7873;n ho&#7863;c hoa c&aacute;t t&#432;&#7901;ng, hoa ly, hoa c&uacute;c. Ch&#7885;n nh&#7919;ng b&ocirc;ng hoa c&ograve;n t&#432;&#417;i, c&agrave;nh d&agrave;i, l&aacute; xanh, c&#7855;m v&agrave;o b&igrave;nh l&#7899;n &#273;&#7893; &#273;&#7847;y n&#432;&#7899;c.<br />Q&#7911;a c&oacute; th&#7875; ch&#7885;n c&aacute;c lo&#7841;i nh&#432; xo&agrave;i, &#273;u &#273;&#7911;, m&atilde;ng c&#7847;u, d&#7915;a &#8230; t&ugrave;y theo &yacute; th&iacute;ch v&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u ki&#7879;n m&#7895;i gia &#273;&igrave;nh.<br />Ngo&agrave;i ra, tr&ecirc;n m&acirc;m c&uacute;ng c&ograve;n c&#7847;n c&oacute; 2 ch&eacute;n r&#432;&#7907;u nh&#7887; + 2 ly n&#432;&#7899;c nh&#7887;.<br />Th&ocirc;ng qua nh&#7919;ng th&ocirc;ng tin tr&ecirc;n, ch&uacute;ng t&ocirc;i hy v&#7885;ng cha m&#7865; s&#7869; c&oacute; th&ecirc;m ki&#7871;n th&#7913;c &#273;&#7875; gi&#7843;i &#273;&aacute;p th&#7855;c m&#7855;c l&#7877; v&#7853;t c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng g&#7891;m nh&#7919;ng g&igrave;. &#272;&#7875; c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ng&agrave;y c&uacute;ng &#273;&#7847;y th&aacute;ng tr&#7885;n v&#7865;n v&agrave; &yacute; ngh&#297;a, cha m&#7865; h&atilde;y ch&uacute; &yacute; chu&#7849;n b&#7883; &#273;&#7847;y &#273;&#7911; l&#7877; v&#7853;t, kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t.<br /><br />